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Scared to become a devotee

Wednesday, 20 November 2019 / Published in Articles / 7,760 views

By Jatayu dasa (SDG)

A long, long time ago when I was not an ISKCON devotee I developed a growing interest in spiritual life. After many years of taking drugs and attending rock concerts I had become sick of life.

I had been manager in several companies I worked for, most of the time I had more money than I needed and I had freedom and independence. Somehow I was not satisfied. I started wondering if real happiness existed. I discovered that no matter how hard I tried I just could not break free from certain activities.

I was looking for real freedom; freedom from the unseen forces that drove me to seek out all those things people said would make me happy but in truth bound me with chains. I was confused, where do I turn now? Then one day I had the courage to admit to myself that, with all these desirable things, I was not happy. This was the first scary thing, to admit I was not happy.

Then, my life began to change. Again, I became scared because I didn’t really know where I was going. All I knew was I didn’t want to be where I was. I was haunted by a thousand fears, what should I do now, will I have money? Will I have friends? Will I be cared for? And on and on. So I started to read. First it was science, then psychology, and then self help. It didn’t fit. I was scared again, where do I go? So I tried eastern philosophy. Now, heres something. I read more and learned a lot. I learned drugs were bad, so I stopped. As a result I lost 85% of my friends, and then I got really scared; but excited.

If they were really my friends then they would support me to improve my life. So I took another step. I learned that happiness was not found in women, TV, eating dead animals or in reading numerous books. I gave it up, even though I was scared. Then I learned happiness was not found in rock and roll. This is going too far I thought, so I held on. But in the mean time my life had changed direction a dozen times and I had to admit that I was finding a wonderful sense of freedom from all the things that I thought gave me happiness. I was not doing many of these things and I was still alive. And in many ways becoming happy. But still I knew I had to go further. There was something deep inside that wasn’t being fulfilled.

I began to practice Hatha Yoga. Amazing things happened. I became strong both mentally and physically. I was more alert, I felt alive. But, deep inside a voice cried out for more. Then I met the devotees. Now I was scared. I had seen them before but did not take them serious. Now I was attracted but I turned away. Again I saw them and again I was scared, but of what. It was independence. What was so great about independence?

I made all my own decisions, I was my own man, but I was also unhappy. I wanted to break away completely from the material world. I wanted God in my life. I want to try it, I thought. But what if I failed? What will I have to give up? I was really scared now. I will have to give up rock and roll and I will have to follow rules and regulations. But deep down inside, my hearts said try it. Scared I was but I took a few steps. And wow, it worked, kind of. I didn’t become a saint and I didn’t see the white light but I did begin to feel an inner peace. I took another step and fell down. And it hurt.

I took another step and fell down. What now? I tried again and started to walk. I began to realize that Krsna was everywhere, even in my own life. I began to understand that Krsna was a person and that I had a relationship with Him, a loving relationship that was eternal. I was actually becoming happy. Sometimes even tears of joy came to my eyes. I even gave up rock and roll, and I survived. Today, I’m still scared but I keep taking those next steps. I still fall down and I still get back up. I’m succeeding in spiritual life. But I did not do it alone. I always found the greatest source of strength from my devotee friends. Of course, I had to reach out to them; they could not read my mind. I had to ask for help.

This too I had to learn. I had to ask the right questions and when I got the answers I acted on that knowledge. Over the years I matured, my vision to continue comes from reading Srila Prabhupada’s books, my encouragement comes from seeing devotees around me work hard and succeed and my goal remains clear by humbly serving Radha Gopinatha the best way I can. Being scared is natural for all living entities when they are put into uncertain circumstances.

But when we come to realize that Krsna is our best friend and that His love for us is eternal then there is nothing in this world that is fearful. He loves us, not like our love for each other but real love, a kind of love that has no comparison in our life. And when this love touches us we will not be scared to take the next step. I am scared of death but Krsna will defeat that for me simply by the sound of His name. And when I wake up in the spiritual world there will be no more pain, nor suffering, nor fear, just eternality, knowledge and bliss, like the scriptures have told me all along.

I thought that life in the material world was bad, actually its life in material consciousness that is bad. All of us go through these changes to some degree or another. We have learned that Krsna consciousness is a collective process as well as an individual process. We can see that Krsna consciousness is not otherworldly or abstract but is very down to earth, natural and real. Our lives in the material world will go on, raising children, working a job, caring for friends. But when we add Krsna to our lives then life finally has a real purpose. Life becomes meaningful and we can become happy.

We just have to be willing to take the next step.

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3 Responses to “Scared to become a devotee”

  1. indulekha.devi.dasi says :

    All Glories to Sri Sri Guru and Gauranga! Please accept my dandavata pranams.

    I really identified with what you have to say here, especially the rock and roll and drugs. I am ashamed to admit this, but due to my former “sex, drugs, & rock and roll” consciousness it took from 1979 (when I first read Bhagavada Gita As It Is and first visited a temple) until 2007 for me to get serious about spiritual life and finally accept initiation. Of course I also still fall down but I keep getting back up.

    I like that you said you “survived” the realization that rock and roll will not bring happiness. That was a hard one for me too, but thankfully I am over that now. I thank Krishna everyday for all the wonderful devotees making fine Krishna conscious music. It’s all I listen to now, and I find it most satisfying.

    Hare Krishna!

    Indulekha-devi dasi

  2. soma108 says :

    All Glories to Our Spiritual Master His Divine Grace A.C. Bhaktivedanta Srila Prabhupada.

    My realization about being scared is an insecurity of the future or even the present and lack of confidence in one’s spiritual strength. I remember when I first came upon Krsna Consciousness I used to see the devotees on Second Avenue coming and going. I was approximately 14 years old at the time and I knew the devotees were all about religion and God. I came to the automatic realization that this was something pure. I really liked seeing the devotees. During the time I was 17 years I first came across a Back to Godhead magazine on the subways laying there on the seat. I picked it up and took it home. Upon reading it I immediately became vegetarian and offered what I ate to Krishna in some humble way, and started chanting Hare Krishna. I wanted to be a devotee.

    The first time I came to the temple in Brooklyn I came during the Sunday feast. Srila Prabhupada was giving a lecture. I came with nothing except the clothes on my back. I had full faith that whatever I needed would be provided. After the lecture I told the devotees I wanted to become a devotee too and they let me take a shower and put on a sari and tilak. I lived in the temple for a few weeks and because I wasn’t 18 yet my parents made me go home and finish high school. I rejoined when I turned 18 years.

    I liked the feeling of giving everything up for Krishna and depending on him. Throughout the years there were times of natural surrender and my experiences of natural austerities of purification. I have enjoyed them very much because they gave me strength. Once in a while I was somewhat reluctant or forced into a situation, but deep inside I knew Krishna was sending me to that situation so I can detach from my desires.

    I am in a very happy space right now going to the temple and loving to pay my obeisances to Srila Prabhupada and the deities, praying for their shelter, protection and spiritual strength. I can see now that the key to real happiness comes naturally and is honest surrender, wanting to be a devotee of Krishna.

    Thank you and Hare Krishna.
    Omkara devi dasi

  3. pustakrishna says :

    So nice to hear an honest representation of nearly all of us! We are living “falsely independent” in this world. Through knowledge we can be convinced that we are indeed dependent beings. Then, if we have a choice, and we do, we want to be dependent on our Creator, our dearmost Friend, and the be-all and end-all of all rasas or relationships for the jiva soul. Prahlad Maharaj said that he was not afraid of the fearsome form of Lord Nrsingadeva, but rather of the material world where we can be lost in forgetfulness of Krishna for eons and eons. Abhaya Charana Vindare…taking shelter of Krishna we become fearless, even from death, and we can realize our identity as eternal servant of the Lord. All Glories to Srila Prabhupad, Sri Gurudeva, who has given real life to this otherwise moving mannequin. Thank you, prabhu, for your honest realizations. Pusta Krishna das

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