{"id":10473,"date":"2012-04-17T18:15:40","date_gmt":"2012-04-17T17:15:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/?p=10473"},"modified":"2012-04-17T18:17:01","modified_gmt":"2012-04-17T17:17:01","slug":"hare-krishna-tolerance","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/?p=10473","title":{"rendered":"Hare Krishna Tolerance"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/dandavats.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/Screenshot-2012-04-17_19.12.29.jpg\" width=\"600\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>By Barnaby Haszard Morris<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>April 16, 2012<br \/>\nWe can all learn something from the International Society for Krishna Consciousness. Yes, disaffected Wellington youth, even you.<\/p>\n<p>I was walking along Lambton Quay in Wellington the other day, on the way to buy my niece a present for her fifth birthday. My train of thought was a little unfocused as I tried to think of what she would like: a book? a DVD? a Barbie? Would she want something she already knows a lot about, or a total surprise? Hey, perhaps school supplies would be an appropriately practical gift for a grown-up girl.<\/p>\n<p>My mind is usually this scattered, or even more so.<\/p>\n<p>Suddenly, I noticed a familiar jangling up ahead. As I strained my failing eyes into the distance \u2014 it\u2019s really about time I got some glasses \u2014 I could make out a procession of International Society for Krishna Consciousness [ISKCON] devotees. You, as I, probably know them better as Hare Krishnas after their mantra:<\/p>\n<p>Hare Krishna Hare Krishna<br \/>\nKrishna Krishna Hare Hare<br \/>\nHare Rama Hare Rama<br \/>\nRama Rama Hare Hare<\/p>\n<p>I couldn\u2019t help but smile. Hare Krishnas always make me smile. They\u2019re so unashamedly devotional, even as the world becomes more and more individualistic. It often seems that when bumped into, smiled at, accosted or questioned, we are supposed to keep a straight face and carry on unmoved. To beat a tambourine or a drum and chant your overwhelming belief in and deference to a higher consciousness, on such busy and indifferent streets, is a courageous thing to do.<\/p>\n<p>While I don\u2019t think I could ever join them, I also really admire their clarity of focus. I sure could use a lot more focus in my own life.<\/p>\n<p>As our paths converged, I tried \u2014 and failed \u2014 to suppress my grin. I looked them in the eye as they passed, and they were quite a motley crew: among them, a twentysomething white guy clad in orange and wearing the standard Hare Krishna ponytail-only hairstyle; a short, plump, short-haired, calm-faced, brown-skinned woman; an Indian man in a sweatshirt and a dhoti, carrying books; and a tall, slim, smiling white woman in salwar kameez.<\/p>\n<p>She caught my eye and kind of skipped over towards me as I passed, holding something out towards me with her right hand. I smiled and took it without thinking, thanking her as she smiled broadly back at me. It was a small cookie, wrapped in cling film. My smile broadened.<\/p>\n<p>After she skittered on, the man in the sweatshirt was next to approach.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHello sir, do you have a minute to just see some books?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Again, without thinking, I stopped and relented. \u201cSure.\u201d Would I have been so easily convinced if I had never been to India?<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOkay, so, I just want to show you\u2026\u201d He shuffled through his stack of books, eventually finding a thick hardcover tome. \u201c\u2026this book, the Bhagavad Gita. Now, have you ever heard of yoga?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I couldn\u2019t help myself. \u201cYes I have heard of yoga and the Bhagavad Gita and I lived in India for three years and I love India so much,\u201d I blurted out.<\/p>\n<p>(This is more or less standard practice for former expats-in-India. Given an Indian to talk to, we will do everything we can to demonstrate that we Love India and Indians and everything about India. Dave Prager, author of Delirious Delhi, articulated this urge very well here.)<\/p>\n<p>Fortunately, the man did not freak out at my over-the-top enthusiasm. Instead, he smiled and said, \u201cOh, really?\u201d with genuine curiosity. \u201cIn which part of India were you living?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cKerala,\u201d I replied. \u201cFar down south, near to Trivandrum.\u201d And I love Kerala so much, etc. \u201cWhat about you, where are you from?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMe? I am from Pune.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAh. I\u2019ve never been there. But I have visited Mumbai.\u201d And I love Mumbai so much also\u2026 Control yourself, brain! \u201cAnyway, tell me,\u201d I said, gesturing towards his fresh, updated version of the Bhagavad Gita.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYes,\u201d he said, and prepared to deliver his spiel. \u201cBasically, in Bhagavad Gita, all the answers are there. What all people basically want in their life is to be happy, no? But normally they are getting distracted \u2013 with job, money, family problems and all. The Bhagavad Gita actually shows you the secrets of happiness \u2013 all the secrets of happiness. This book is all you need.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019ve never read it,\u201d I said, \u201cbut it\u2019s part of the Mahabharata, right?\u201d Couldn\u2019t help it. Had to show off.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYes! You know Mahabharata? Yes, it\u2019s wonderful.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHave you read the whole thing?\u201d I asked in some disbelief \u2014 the Mahabharata is many thousands of pages long.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYes,\u201d he replied without hesitation. \u201cI highly recommend it. Wonderful. But here, feel free to take a look at this,\u201d handing me the Bhagavad Gita.<\/p>\n<p>As I absent-mindedly opened the book to random pages, I noted that the rest of his group had crossed and continued on up the other side of Lambton Quay. \u201cIt looks like your friends have left you behind,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n<p>He turned and looked in their direction, then back to me. \u201cOh, that\u2019s not a problem,\u201d he said with another smile.<\/p>\n<p>My fingers turned to the title page, where I recognised a name. \u201cOh, it\u2019s Prabhupada,\u201d I said. Still showing off.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYes \u2014 you know Prabhupada also?!\u201d He was really thrilled at this. I somehow resisted the urge to tell him all about that one fascinated afternoon I had spent watching YouTube videos about Prabhupada. In a way, though, my earnestness about all things India reflected his, and the rest of his group\u2019s, for Krishna Consciousness.<\/p>\n<p>Closing the book, I handed it back to him, explaining that I wouldn\u2019t be taking anything from him today and had to get on with buying my niece\u2019s gift \u2014 but that I would love to meet him again in future. We exchanged names, occupations and phone numbers. Turns out he was a software engineer by day. I promised I would be in touch, and he beamed as we parted ways.<\/p>\n<p>*<\/p>\n<p>About five minutes later, I was waiting at a pedestrian crossing for the light to turn green. Three teenagers stood in front of me, two boys and a girl.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019m so hungry,\u201d said the girl. She looked like she was always hungry.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHere, have this,\u201d said one of the boys, handing her a wrapped cookie from the Hare Krishnas. She took it, though she looked confused.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhere\u2019s this from?\u201d she asked.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThose dudes over there,\u201d said the boy, stifling a laugh and pointing down Lambton Quay to the jangling procession. The girl\u2019s face dropped.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOuch,\u201d she said in disgust, moving to throw the cookie on the ground before thrusting it back into the boy\u2019s hand. Both of the boys laughed, and she carried on scowling. Somehow, I resisted the urge to tell them how much I love India.<\/p>\n<p>Here, as I finish writing this, I\u2019m eating the cookie the Hare Krishnas gave me. It\u2019s an Anzac biscuit, which is a sweet mixture of oats and golden syrup strongly linked with Australia and New Zealand\u2019s efforts in the First World War.<\/p>\n<p>The cookie is delicious. That girl doesn\u2019t know what she\u2019s missing.<\/p>\n<p>Photo credit: screenwork.nl<br \/>\nSource: http:\/\/www.the-nri.com\/index.php\/2012\/04\/hare-krishna-tolerance\/<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/dandavats.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/Screenshot-2012-04-17_19.11.36.jpg\"\/><strong>By Barnaby Haszard Morris<\/strong><\/p>\n<p> I was walking along Lambton Quay in Wellington the other day, on the way to buy my niece a present for her fifth birthday. My train of thought was a little unfocused as I tried to think of what she would like: a book? a DVD? a Barbie? Would she want something she already knows a lot about, or a total surprise? 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