{"id":26138,"date":"2016-04-05T13:53:56","date_gmt":"2016-04-05T11:53:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/?p=26138"},"modified":"2016-04-05T13:54:35","modified_gmt":"2016-04-05T11:54:35","slug":"the-vanaprastha-ashram","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/?p=26138","title":{"rendered":"The Vanaprastha Ashram"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/i.imgur.com\/gjnNXLo.jpg\" alt=\"\" \/><\/p>\n<p>By Devaki Devi Dasi<\/p>\n<p>In connection with the Institute for Spiritual Culture we launched a new<br \/>\ncourse on the Vanaprastha Ashram in Mayapur during the month of January.<\/p>\n<p>It was well received by a nice group of devotees of all ages who were<br \/>\neagerly participating. A few senior devotees and disciples of Srila<br \/>\nPrabhupada also took part. This topic of the Vanaprastha Ashram is rarely<br \/>\ndiscussed, and there is almost no awareness amongst the devotees of how<br \/>\nimportant this last phase of life is in order to fully prepare for meeting<br \/>\ndeath, our final challenge. We have training courses for brahmacaris<br \/>\ngrhasthas and Sannyasis, but what about those who are aspiring for the<br \/>\nVanaprastha ashram?!<br \/>\nIn the SB we find many quotes and descriptions of Vanaprastha life, which<br \/>\ndon&#8217;t seem to be relevant and practical for the modern days. However, we can<br \/>\nsimply extract the principles and apply them in our life &#8211; no matter where<br \/>\nwe might be living. Instead of leaving to the forest we can invite the<br \/>\nprinciples of simple forest life into our flat in the city: simplifying our<br \/>\nsurroundings and freeing ourselves from so many unnecessary things, which we<br \/>\nhave most likely accumulated over the years: comfortable and oppulent<br \/>\nfurniture, decorations and so many nick-nacks, which occupy some little<br \/>\nspace in our mind while we are attached to them. Freeing ourselves from<br \/>\nunnecessary belongings is indeed a very liberating experience. Sooner or<br \/>\nlater we will have to leave them behind anyway. Therefore better to<br \/>\nvoluntarily let go of them by for example donating them to young devotees<br \/>\nwho are just about to start with their household life. Thus we at the same<br \/>\ntime experience the joy and benefits of giving in charity with a generous<br \/>\nand happy heart.<br \/>\nAnother principle of Vanaprastha life is to keep our externals more and<br \/>\nmore simple, thus reducing the bodily concept of life. No need to dress in<br \/>\nbark. Yet especially for us ladies it means we can give up our attachment<br \/>\nto make-up, decorations, oppulent dress and bright colors and keep ourselves<br \/>\nmore and more simple. The aging body is already getting less attractive,<br \/>\nwhich is Krsna&#8217;s perfect arrangement to help us in the process of<br \/>\ndetachment.<br \/>\nAnd last but not least we are meant to reduce our fancy eating and simplify<br \/>\nour diet &#8211; something which would be very natural when living in the forest.<br \/>\nAnd again, the aging body is helping us along, since the fire of digestion<br \/>\nis reduced, and we are forced to keep a more simple diet. As we know, the<br \/>\ntongue is the most ferocious sense organ and always demands some<br \/>\nsatisfaction. And especially in the renounced phase of life we are meant to<br \/>\nconquer over the demands of the tongue and develop a higher taste.<\/p>\n<p>Prabhupada speaks very strongly in the SB about the importance of<br \/>\nsimplifying our eating. In the purport to SB.5.18.10 he states: &#8220;Why should<br \/>\nthe menu be unnecessarily increased for the satisfaction of the tongue?<br \/>\nDevotees should eat as simply as possible. Otherwise, attachment for<br \/>\nmaterial things will gradually increase, and the senses, being very strong,<br \/>\nwill soon require more and more material enjoyment. Then the real business<br \/>\nof life\u2014to advance in Krsna consciousness\u2014will stop.&#8221;<br \/>\nNeedless to say, this instruction is especially relevant for those in the<br \/>\nlast phase of life&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p>All these aspects have to be cultivated internally, which can go on over<br \/>\nseveral years. It is not a matter of externally accepting them from one day<br \/>\nto another. It is a matter of meditation, internal cultivation and<br \/>\ntransformation. And ultimately these aspects are meant to help us deepen<br \/>\nour focus on sravanam and kirtanam.<br \/>\nAnd there are of course so many more aspects of Vanaprastha life, which we<br \/>\ndiscussed in our course, the most obvious one being no more sex life.<\/p>\n<p>One may ask how this topic of the Vanaprastha ashram is connected with the<br \/>\ntopic of culture. Interesting to note how in materialistic culture where<br \/>\nsense gratification is the ultimate goal of life old age is viewed as being<br \/>\nthe last chance to one more time enjoy life to the fullest, with luxury<br \/>\ncruises and pleasure trips, in all comfort, leasure and opulence. Also, in<br \/>\nmodern society old people are considered to be a burden, and thus they are<br \/>\npushed aside into Old Age Homes and Retirement Centers. The elderly can&#8217;t<br \/>\nkeep up the race for sense gratification and are seen to be a disturbance<br \/>\nin the pursuits of enjoyment of the young generation. However, in spiritual<br \/>\nculture where self realization is the goal of life, the elderly are very<br \/>\nimportant members of society and embody life experience, wisdom and self<br \/>\nrealization. They are highly respected for their guidance and advice, and<br \/>\nare passing down traditions and values to the young generation. And it is<br \/>\nunderstood that this last phase of life is meant to be lived in simplicity<br \/>\nand austerity to increase hearing and chanting, to ultimately prepare for<br \/>\ndeath. As long as we find it difficult to embrace spiritual culture, the<br \/>\nVanaprastha Ashram will not really manifest. And as we will be able to more<br \/>\nand more apply and actually live our world view and philosophy, very<br \/>\nnaturally the Vanaprastha Ashram will gradually develop. It is a matter of<br \/>\nsystematic training and education. I felt especially encouraged by the fact<br \/>\nthat also young devotees showed interest in this topic and eagerly<br \/>\nparticipated in the course. It should be of general knowledge and interest.<br \/>\nEvery devotee should receive insights in how old age is meant to be lived<br \/>\nwithin spiritual practice. Then devotees can plan their life and gradually<br \/>\ncultivate internal detachment.<br \/>\nThe recordings of the course will be soon available on<br \/>\nwww.therootsofspiritualculture.net<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/i.imgur.com\/gjnNXLo.jpg\" alt=\"\" \/>Devaki Devi Dasi: In connection with the Institute for Spiritual Culture we launched a new course on the Vanaprastha Ashram in Mayapur during the month of January.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[93],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26138","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog-thoughts"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26138","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=26138"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26138\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":26140,"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26138\/revisions\/26140"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=26138"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=26138"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=26138"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}