{"id":31759,"date":"2016-09-27T10:06:46","date_gmt":"2016-09-27T08:06:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/?p=31759"},"modified":"2016-09-27T10:06:46","modified_gmt":"2016-09-27T08:06:46","slug":"why-men-and-women-are-not-equal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/?p=31759","title":{"rendered":"Why Men and Women are not Equal"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Devaki dd: In these modern days of Kali Yuga, we are conditioned by the common<br \/>\npropaganda of men and women being equal &#8211; a very crucial misunderstanding<br \/>\nwhich leads to so many further misunderstandings and confusions. This little<br \/>\narticle is meant to shed some light onto the topic and take us to deeper<br \/>\nlevels of understanding.<br \/>\nIn Bhagavad Gita Krsna explains that equality is there on the level of the<br \/>\nsoul &#8211; not only between man and woman, but between all living entities:<br \/>\npanditah sama-darsinah (BG 5.18). All living entities are equal on the level<br \/>\nof the soul, but on the level of the body there is no equality. As the soul<br \/>\naccepts a body, it acts like a certain vehicle. As a little analogy we can<br \/>\ncompare the male vehicle to a tractor: male nature is practical and down to<br \/>\nearth, he wants to get things done &#8211; to achieve things, to move things<br \/>\nforward. He wants to take charge and be in the front &#8211; the nature and<br \/>\nqualities of a tractor. Somebody in this world has to play this role, so<br \/>\nKrishna has given it to those souls in a men&#8217;s body. In Krsna&#8217;s system the<br \/>\npurifying duties for men are to protect, provide and take charge. And<br \/>\nKrishna has given men a perfect body with the right qualities and natures &#8211;<br \/>\ngross and subtle, so they can perfectly perform these roles.<br \/>\nWe can compare the female vehicle to a sports-car &#8211; feminine energy is very<br \/>\npowerful: so much more powerful than the male energy. And sports-cars are<br \/>\nmeant to be a little flashy and fancy &#8211; that&#8217;s the female vehicle. (And<br \/>\ndon&#8217;t we all know: most men do like to have a sports car!) The purifying<br \/>\nduty of a woman is to bare children, to raise them and be a good care giver,<br \/>\nand to be the auspicious source of energy and inspiration to men. Prabhupada<br \/>\nvery nicely describes this again and again in different purports in the<br \/>\nBhagavatam (SB 4.26.15., 4.21.4. and others).<br \/>\nSometimes we find that devotees are a little confused and object: &#8220;But isn&#8217;t<br \/>\nthis the bodily platform?&#8221; The answer is: &#8220;No, it is not.&#8221; To distinguish<br \/>\nbetween the two vehicles is not the bodily platform &#8211; it is a sign of<br \/>\nintelligence. For some reason we ended up in a certain vehicle, and to<br \/>\nunderstand what kind of vehicle I am driving in this life time, and what is<br \/>\nit&#8217;s nature, qualities and purpose is indeed a sign of good intelligence.<br \/>\nBodily platform would be if we identify with the vehicle, understanding it<br \/>\nto be the very self.<br \/>\nBecause of lack of knowledge of the equality on the level of the soul, we<br \/>\napply it on the level of the body, which leads to very drastic consequences.<br \/>\nIt is the root cause of so many further misunderstanding, bringing about<br \/>\nsocial chaos. Spiritual culture is Krsna&#8217;s culture &#8211; Krishna&#8217;s perfect<br \/>\nsystem in order to create stability and harmony in this world. All our<br \/>\nsocial problems which we are facing in these modern days &#8211; inside ISKCON and<br \/>\noutside ISKCON &#8211; are global reactions for not following Krishna&#8217;s system.<br \/>\nOur disease is that we think our modern system is so much better than<br \/>\nKrsna&#8217;s system. We take Krsna&#8217;s system to be old-fashioned and out-dated &#8211;<br \/>\nwho would ever accept Krsna consciousness if we present such out-dated<br \/>\nsystem?! However, as Prabhupada always says: &#8220;To every material problem<br \/>\nthere is a spiritual solution!&#8221; All our social problems like divorce, single<br \/>\nmothers, neglected children, careless and irresponsible men &#8211; even child<br \/>\nabuse and violence towards women &#8211; are global reactions for not following<br \/>\nKrishna&#8217;s system. In Krishna&#8217;s system they don&#8217;t have any place. If we want<br \/>\nto show the world how human life is meant to be lived, it will be helpful to<br \/>\nget deeper insights into His divine system.<br \/>\nAs a result of this misunderstanding of equality of men and women, we women<br \/>\nare competing with men and don&#8217;t agree to take the subordinate position any<br \/>\nlonger. However, a woman can only be the energy and inspiration to men if<br \/>\nshe takes a subordinate position. Prabhupada explains in SB.5.1.29. that men<br \/>\ndo need this feminine energy in order to be inspired and motivated. And when<br \/>\nwomen compete, as a result men become weak and insecure, losing their<br \/>\nmasculine qualities and becoming more feminine. In Kali Yuga men become more<br \/>\nirresponsible and careless, whereas women become more masculine and<br \/>\ndominant. Furthermore a man can only protect a woman if she takes the<br \/>\nsubordinate position. As soon as she wants to be equal, he cannot execute<br \/>\nhis heroic task of giving protection to her.<br \/>\nAll these unwanted results lead to so many further problems within society.<br \/>\nIt is like in mathematics: when we mistake one plus one to be five, all<br \/>\nfurther mathematic &#8211; no matter how highly developed it may be &#8211; is wrong,<br \/>\nbecause it is based on the wrong concept.<br \/>\nThe mid sixties being the heights of women&#8217;s liberation and equality, Srila<br \/>\nPrabhupada was very often interviewed on this topic, and his usual answer<br \/>\nwas: &#8220;Woman becomes pregnant, man cannot; how can they be equal? Can the men<br \/>\nbe pregnant, too? Is it possible?&#8221; And further he explained: As soon as man<br \/>\nand woman unite, there will be a child. She will become pregnant, and thus<br \/>\nshe will be dependent on him for support. That is Krishna&#8217;s system. So how<br \/>\ncan there be equality? (see interview on 7.7.75)<br \/>\nOn June 18, 1974 Srila Prabhupada says in a lecture on BG.2.13. in Germany:<br \/>\n&#8220;So this statement will not be very palatable to the Western girls. They<br \/>\nwant independence. In Chicago, when I was there, they talked about<br \/>\nindependence of the woman. They asked me question. So I replied, &#8220;No, woman<br \/>\ncannot be given independence.&#8221; So there was a great agitation against me. In<br \/>\nmany papers I was very much criticized. But actually it is the fact, because<br \/>\nthey are innocent, not so intelligent and&#8230; These are all practical. We may<br \/>\navoid discussing, but Bhagavata is very open for discussing all subject<br \/>\nmatter. That is fact. We should not hide anything artificially. We must<br \/>\ndiscuss the fact. Not only here, the mention it is, the Manu-samhita.<br \/>\nManu-samhita recommends, &#8220;A woman should not be given independence.&#8221; For<br \/>\ntheir interest they must be protected by father, husband, and sons, because<br \/>\nif they are polluted, they become very dangerous.&#8221;<br \/>\nTo conclude I would like to quote another clear statement which Prabhupada<br \/>\nmade on the 27th of May, 1975 in Rome on a morning walk. Yogeshvara is<br \/>\nasking: &#8220;Here&#8217;s a problem. The women today want the same rights as men. How<br \/>\ncan they be satisfied?&#8221; Prabhupada is answering: &#8220;Everything will be<br \/>\nsatisfied. Just like our women, Krishna conscious, they are working. They<br \/>\ndon&#8217;t want equal rights with men. It is due to Krishna consciousness. They<br \/>\nare cleansing the temple, they are cooking very nicely. They are satisfied.<br \/>\nThey never say that &#8220;I have to go to Japan for preaching like Prabhupada.&#8221;<br \/>\nThey never say. This is artificial. So Krishna consciousness means work in<br \/>\nhis constitutional position. The women, men &#8211; when they remain in their<br \/>\nconstitutional position, there will be no artificiali&#8221; &#8211; and then<br \/>\nunfortunately it becomes indistinct because of loud traffic noise, and we<br \/>\ndon&#8217;t hear the end of the sentence. Prabhupada very clearly makes his point:<br \/>\nboth have to be engaged according to their constitutional position. And if<br \/>\nour men and our ladies play their roles, then we will be able to create<br \/>\nharmony and stability in our society. Then Lord Caitanya&#8217;s Sankirtan<br \/>\nMovement will become very powerful. We will be able to show the world how<br \/>\ncivilized and cultured human life is meant to be lived: in stability and<br \/>\nharmony &#8211; the solid foundation to develop our relationship with Krsna.<br \/>\nFor further information please visit www.therootsofspiritualculture.net<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Devaki dd: In these modern days of Kali Yuga, we are conditioned by the common propaganda of men and women being equal<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[93],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31759","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog-thoughts"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31759","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=31759"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31759\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":31760,"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31759\/revisions\/31760"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=31759"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=31759"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=31759"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}