{"id":63085,"date":"2018-06-08T10:55:30","date_gmt":"2018-06-08T08:55:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dandavats.tumblr.com\/post\/174688030876"},"modified":"2019-07-30T09:52:20","modified_gmt":"2019-07-30T07:52:20","slug":"12-ways-to-let-people-make-you-miserable-mahatma-das-the-gita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/?p=63085","title":{"rendered":"12 Ways to Let People Make You Miserable. Mahatma das: The Gita&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\"  src=\"http:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/wp-content\/uploads6\/tumblr_p9zy4i3P3m1sbj0vuo1_500.jpg\" width=\"500\" height=\"500\" \/><\/p>\n<p>12 Ways to Let People Make You Miserable. <br \/>\nMahatma das: The Gita says we can be expert at making ourselves miserable. Here are some ways we do this in relation to people. We:<br \/>\n1. Hate someone<br \/>\n2. Resent someone<br \/>\n3. Become angry with someone<br \/>\n4. Become envious of someone<br \/>\n5. Become jealous of someone <br \/>\n6. Criticize someone <br \/>\n7. Constantly complain about someone. <br \/>\n8. Expect someone to do something they can\u2019t <br \/>\n9. Argue with someone who will never admit they are wrong<br \/>\n10. Try to change or control someone we can\u2019t (or who doesn\u2019t want us to)<br \/>\n11. Try to make someone unhappy or make their life miserable<br \/>\n12. Dwell on one or more of the above \u201csomeones.\u201d<br \/>\nIf this \u201csomeone\u201d is a close friend, family member or spouse, the misery multiplies many times over.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/78.media.tumblr.com\/2dd73a88cbd8e2e05778816888fc05fe\/tumblr_p9zy4i3P3m1sbj0vuo1_500.jpg\"><\/p>\n<p>12 Ways to Let People Make You Miserable. <br \/>\nMahatma das: The Gita says we can be expert at making ourselves miserable. Here are some ways we do this in relation to people. We:<br \/>\n1. Hate someone<br \/>\n2. Resent someone<br \/>\n3. Become angry with someone<br \/>\n4. Become envious of someone<br \/>\n5. Become jealous of someone <br \/>\n6. Criticize someone <br \/>\n7. Constantly complain about someone. <br \/>\n8. Expect someone to do something they can&rsquo;t <br \/>\n9. Argue with someone who will never admit they are wrong<br \/>\n10. Try to change or control someone we can&rsquo;t (or who doesn&rsquo;t want us to)<br \/>\n11. Try to make someone unhappy or make their life miserable<br \/>\n12. Dwell on one or more of the above &ldquo;someones.&rdquo;<br \/>\nIf this &ldquo;someone&rdquo; is a close friend, family member or spouse, the misery multiplies many times over.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10650,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[118],"tags":[152],"class_list":["post-63085","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-recent-media","tag-nectar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/63085","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/10650"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=63085"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/63085\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":77076,"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/63085\/revisions\/77076"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=63085"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=63085"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=63085"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}