{"id":73794,"date":"2023-04-15T11:56:30","date_gmt":"2023-04-15T09:56:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dandavats.tumblr.com\/post\/184171785136"},"modified":"2023-04-15T11:56:44","modified_gmt":"2023-04-15T09:56:44","slug":"am-i-ready-for-marriage-by-uttama-devi-dasichecklisti-know","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/?p=73794","title":{"rendered":"Am I Ready for Marriage?"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Am I Ready for Marriage?
\n BY UTTAMA DEVI DASI
\nChecklist:
\nI know why I want to marry.
\nI am ready to give up being single and to commit to another person for life.
\nI am mature enough to know what I want and don\u2019t want in a partner.
\nI understand it\u2019s not my partner\u2019s job to fulfill me, complete me, rescue me or keep me happy.
\nI can regulate (or discipline) my self-serving impulses and put another person first.
\nI am not impulsive about seeking pleasure
\nI am willing to compromise
\nI don\u2019t think I\u2019m always right
\nI am sensitive to and can empathize with the feelings of others
\nI don\u2019t easily get into arguments or fights (I can self-soothe)
\nI can try to understand another\u2019s ( even opposing) point of view
\nI am non-judgmental
\nI understand happiness and love come by giving
\nI make a serious effort to fulfill commitments
\nI can maintain, or help to maintain a family.
\nI understand the difference between love and infatuation.
\nI have a healthy way of handling conflict.
\nI have good personal hygiene.<\/p>\n

Are WE Ready for Marriage?<\/p>\n

We are aligned with each other\u2019s core values.
\nWe have compatible personalities.
\nWe have similar conflict resolution styles.
\nWe are both able to tackle tough issues together.
\nWe have the same type of lifestyle.
\nWe don\u2019t want to change (each other) your partner.
\nOur family and friends like our partner.
\nWe both want or don\u2019t want children.
\nWe have discussed areas of importance. Try these premarital questions.
\nMore here: http:\/\/vaisnavafamilyresources.org\/<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

<\/p>\n

Am I Ready for Marriage?
\n BY UTTAMA DEVI DASI
\nChecklist:
\nI know why I want to marry.
\nI am ready to give up being single and to commit to another person for life.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10650,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[118],"tags":[152],"class_list":["post-73794","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-recent-media","tag-nectar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/73794","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/10650"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=73794"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/73794\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":107700,"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/73794\/revisions\/107700"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=73794"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=73794"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dandavats.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=73794"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}